Happy marriage is first finding a right person and the understanding we have in-between both..A happy long-lasting marriage: Really? Is it still possible? Well, I guess we'll have to wait fifty years to find out. Of course, no one should stay in an abusive marriage. If you're being abused and bullied then your spouse has defaulted on 'the deal' anyway (remember the 'to love and to cherish' part of the vows?). But our 'throw away society' may mean that perfectly good relationships are too quickly discarded because they don't seem ideal.The irony is that the modern obsession with 'personal fulfilment' - the importance of the self at the expense of the other - has left more people unfulfilled, sad, and lonely. Marriages crash and burn as spouses are updated for newer, 'better' ones. Have the ideas of commitment, duty, and responsibility...Of course no marriage is perfect, but many are happy. Happy marriages have difficulties, but there is an abiding sense of 'us'.Here are few secrets which makes my husband fall in love with me every day.1. Having a cup of coffee and having dinner together and share all the things which makes my husband stress free.2.going for a short trip every year for a honey moon.3.giving equal importance to husband and kids.4.looking at our marriage album which feels like we are newly married couples and remembering all old memories.5. Helping each other.6.if my husband is in any bad mood talking to him and making to come out of that mood depending on the situation. 7.Ya we use to have small fights and it is common for every married couples and we will not talk to each other for only one night and in the morning we are as normal as we are and forgot the past happened in the night.8.Mainly understanding is important so that we can have the love from our husband as vise versa.