I was touched by listening to her real life story where her parents were worried about her future and many such inspiring things of her life. And all this was because she was a dark-skinned daughter. But this did not deter her rather ignited her spirit to prove her mettle. As she was good at studies, it constantly reminded her to achieve something in life. Later she became the first science graduate in her locality and soon got a very good job. Then, she got married to an academician, who encouraged her in whatever she did. Listening to her story, I was taken aback. Then thought why obsession with skin colour comes for girls only? Is fair skin really needed for a girl? Our society has changed or still we need fair girls?
In fact obsession with skin colour starts not from the birth of the child, rather when the baby is in the womb. I know when my cousin (wheatish colour) was pregnant; she was taking saffron as someone told her taking saffron with milk will influence baby colour.
But after the child birth, I did not notice any significant change as the baby was like her mother. In today’s age, when we say women are no less than men, in this case, why there is a demand for whitish colour? If that would have not been the case, fairness cream advt. would not have been round the corner and matrimonial advt would have skipped the word ‘fair looking girl’.
However, it all depends on the mentality and mind set of the people. If everybody would have opted for creamy colour, then all the dark skinned colour girl would have sat in the house. Now, being dark is the latest fashion. Even tanned complexion women are ruling the silver screen. It is a proof that people are embracing dusky colour.
Well, at present what matters is how presentable and confident you are in your body as well as in your profession. So, all the moms and dads out there chill out if your daughter is dusky. Treat your darling as special, praise her talent, encourage her pursuits, be supportive of chasing her dreams coming true and above all teach her dark is beautiful. It all starts with family - It is the prime responsibility of the parents to perceive tanned colour in positive way. Happiness lies within you and in small things. When these small things are blended together, it brings a big difference for you and for your family at large.
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