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    24 February 2016

    6 Negative Effects of Parents Fighting in Front of Children

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    Parental arguing is inevitable. But baring it all in front of your children can adversely affect the emotional and mental well being of your child. In fact, in the long run, it is even tantamount to child abuse in certain countries!

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    Partners are bound to have disagreements. As responsible parents you should understand the devastating effects of continuous fights in front of your children. It not only interrupts his joyous childhood but can also leave him with some permanent emotional scars. Therefore, consider the following effects of parental fighting on children every time you feel you are going to blow up. Here's why you need to stop fighting in front of kids - right now!

    The Harsh Effects of Parental Fighting on Children

    1. Insecurity:

      A home is a child’s heaven of love and care. Parents fighting in front of kids results in chaos and tension, leaving the child frightened, anxious and helpless. This feeling of insecurity can last a lifetime and create serious behavioral issues later.
    2. Guilt and Shame:

      Children often believe that they are the reason for their parents’ fighting and end up feeling guilty. This can be emotionally distressing for them.
    3. Low Self Esteem:

      Insecurity, feeling of guilt and shame can make your little one unwanted and unworthy. This in turn results in low self esteem which can be permanent and damaging in his long term personal and professional relationships.
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    5. Stressed about Taking Sides:

      Children generally want to please both parents, and the pressure to take sides in a conflict can be distressing for them. They might not understand the basis of the conflict and take a side which might blow up the conflict to even bigger proportions.
    6. Poor Parenting and Sloppy Role Models:

      Children soak in whatever this see and learn from their parents in their formative years. As role models, if we use unheathy communication like parents arguing in front of child, chances are very high that the little ones will grow up and demonstrate the same behaviour with their family and peers.
    7. Poor Academics and Behavioural Issues:

      A child witnessing chronic parental fights finds difficulty in concentrating. He might also have frequent health problems and show either rebellious or introvert behaviour in school. Children from such homes have also been seen to be more prone to substance abuse as they grow up. This is a physically harmful impact of parents fighting on children.

    Important Things to Remember About Marital Fights In Front of Kids

    • Keep it private and use a separate room whenever you feel things are going to turn loud.
    • If a fight does happen in front of your kids, remember to apologise and explain that he’s not the reason for the same.
    • Pen down your thoughts on a piece of paper to be taken up later with your partner.
    • In case the above don’t work you need to seek a mediator or professional help.

    How do you and your partner resolve conflicts and disputes without creating a scene in front of your tot? Do share your tips!We would love to hear from you.



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